Love love love my girls!!!

My mom isn't adjusting very well.  Everyday she has had a meltdown.  Granted I know she is sick and i know she has lived in the same place for the past 10+ years... well, the same complex for 20 years, so change is hard.  Plus, she is having to adjust to having to live with someone else.  Plus, she is having to adjust to a smaller space.  Plus she had to get rid of a lot of stuff.  There are just so many changes she has to adapt to.  The hardest thing is we have decided she can no longer live on her own, and so she feels like this decision was made for her and she hates people making decisions for her and she hates people telling her what to do... i think she hates that more than anything.  Some people just say "marge, take your meds", where I usually say, "is it time for meds?"  Some people say, "get your inhaler" and we say, "do you have your inhaler?"  
It is far different if you say, "do you need" vs. "you need to"

So we got another foot+ of snow last night.  Colton went and did the aprts this morning when he got off of work, then he did some shoveling here.  EO had asked him to because he is just too sick.  But he still went out to clean up at his dad's place.  

Poor EO, he just can't hardly manage to do much of anything yet. He is so sick.  My goal is to try to keep the fire going today.  Cause he isn't even well enough to do that. Colton would have gone and cleaned up at Bill's if he hadn't worked all night and did the apts here too.  He just couldn't hardly do much, as he was so shot.  He figured once he wakes up this afternoon he could do a little more before he has to go to work. 

Steph did some shoveling here too.  Her boss told her not to come in today due to the storm, so she will work Monday instead.  However, Steph  left now to go spend a couple nights with Lauren, to help tend to Gram.  Lauren has to work at walmart tonight, so Steph will be there to help Gram.  Plus Steph wanted to see if she couldn't help arrange her room and get things straightened out. Most everything is put away, but Ma's room, well, I guess stuff was put away, but, things need to be rearranged, the stuff she needs to reach isn't where she can and the stuff she doesn't need to reach is in reach... so it is just a matter of reorganizing.  

I just keep praying that Ma and Lauren can have a calm and patient heart.  Lauren has called me a handful of times already because of Ma carrying on so much.  It isn't like I can just come over there.  So I am hoping and praying that the girls have wisdom and can get her settled down.  So I pray pray pray pray pray... that Jehovah step in and calm her down, because He is the only one who really can.