growing up
Posted by Robyn Nelson on Saturday, July 17, 2010
Our kids are growing up. We just co-signed for our son to get his first car loan (from a bank). Plenty of times he has borrowed money to buy things, he has always paid it back. Plus, he has been really good about working. Well, he got his first job when he was 10, doing yard work. He even saved and got himself a lawn tractor and did more lawn jobs, then taking care of the neighbor's sled dog team. He did that job up until last year when they moved to Gordon. He has proved himself very reliable & responsible. At first Leon didn't want to co-sign, but it was more, he was concerned the bank would say no. I told him, because of how trustworthy our son is, I have no problem co-signing. Plus, we won't know the answer unless we ask. So the loan was approved.
On top of how responsible he is, he didn't go for a 2 door sport's car, but a 4 door family car. He wanted something reliable for taking another family down to the D.C. Plus he wanted a good service car. BTW, he didn't buy a new car, but a used one.
He also has a REALLY good job now. He isn't even working full time, he could, but he wants to be able to get in service more. Maybe even pioneer. (at least I hope).
And then our youngest, her boss has really changed his attitude. She warned a girl who was stealing food (giving her family & friends free food) and told her not to do it ever in front of her again. The girl didn't listen, so she turned her in. She asked her boss that it be anonymous. The boss talked to the girl the next day, the girl admitted it. From that point on, the boss has been so nice, that he has taught her how to open & close, and do a few things that he never even taught anyone else. It has been a crazy year though, they had 9 or 10 employees, but are now down to 4. I sure hope he hires a few more. She reminded him about being gone for the DC. It is really good to see her hard work and honesty appreciated.
Our oldest did a fabulous job on her talk last week. she was so nervous, because she had to do an outline. But she did it, and did so well. I'm sure next time it will be easier. She said the next morning she felt so good, and is so excited now for the DC. She isn't aux. pioneering this month, just took the month off. She has been such a big help, and really trying to be encouraging to me. I don't know where I would be without my dear family.
My auntie Brae sent me a cook book with all sorts of fabulous meatless dishes in it. Can't wait to try them all out!!! That was such a great gift. I am just borrowing it, but still, between her and Rob, they have been the most comforting and helpful with my need. Diana was fabulous too, she called and talked for some time, helping me. I love them!
I do have to say, at this point, I'm rather disappointed in myself. My self-worth issues must run far far far deeper than I understand that I haven't been able to make solid progress with them. I don't expect a cure in this system, but I guess I would like to not be beaten up all the time by them. At least I recognize I have them and I understand my weakness.
On top of how responsible he is, he didn't go for a 2 door sport's car, but a 4 door family car. He wanted something reliable for taking another family down to the D.C. Plus he wanted a good service car. BTW, he didn't buy a new car, but a used one.
He also has a REALLY good job now. He isn't even working full time, he could, but he wants to be able to get in service more. Maybe even pioneer. (at least I hope).
And then our youngest, her boss has really changed his attitude. She warned a girl who was stealing food (giving her family & friends free food) and told her not to do it ever in front of her again. The girl didn't listen, so she turned her in. She asked her boss that it be anonymous. The boss talked to the girl the next day, the girl admitted it. From that point on, the boss has been so nice, that he has taught her how to open & close, and do a few things that he never even taught anyone else. It has been a crazy year though, they had 9 or 10 employees, but are now down to 4. I sure hope he hires a few more. She reminded him about being gone for the DC. It is really good to see her hard work and honesty appreciated.
Our oldest did a fabulous job on her talk last week. she was so nervous, because she had to do an outline. But she did it, and did so well. I'm sure next time it will be easier. She said the next morning she felt so good, and is so excited now for the DC. She isn't aux. pioneering this month, just took the month off. She has been such a big help, and really trying to be encouraging to me. I don't know where I would be without my dear family.
My auntie Brae sent me a cook book with all sorts of fabulous meatless dishes in it. Can't wait to try them all out!!! That was such a great gift. I am just borrowing it, but still, between her and Rob, they have been the most comforting and helpful with my need. Diana was fabulous too, she called and talked for some time, helping me. I love them!
I do have to say, at this point, I'm rather disappointed in myself. My self-worth issues must run far far far deeper than I understand that I haven't been able to make solid progress with them. I don't expect a cure in this system, but I guess I would like to not be beaten up all the time by them. At least I recognize I have them and I understand my weakness.